After a hard day, some people call their mom first.
As an adult, that can make you wonder: am I too dependent?
Not necessarily.
Even close relationships have conflict
Adult parents and children can feel affection, gratitude, irritation, and worry at the same time.
A disagreement does not mean the relationship is failing. It can simply mean two people are at different stages of life.
What does a good bond look like?
Support is healthy when you can ask for comfort without handing over your whole life.
“I want to hear what you think” is different from “I cannot decide until you approve.”
Moms and daughters do not need to be best friends. A quiet relationship with respect and steady care can be just as good.